By: Dr. Michael N. Smith Sr.
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY TO ALL THE LADIES, YOUR LOVED AND APPRECIATED.
Men, let this Valentine be full of the following....
"Understanding"
To comprehend the significance of something. Truly during this time understand the significance and the importance of your companion in the relationship. Don't focus on the shortcomings or weakness but on the strengths that she brings to the relationship.
"Caring"
To be fond of, to regard to be responsible for. This is a season when the Man fully needs to be aware of his responsibility in the relationship. for this let's look into the scripture
Ephesians 5:25
25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
This is a major responsibility for the man to love his wife as Christ loved the church. Basically, it means giving no regard for your own life be willing to guard, protect and defend at all cost.
"Kind"
Having a sympathetic nature, considerate. In your deeds
It's important to remember men, if you are looking, desiring and craving your wife to be kind the way to achieve that is by showing kindness first. Remember "You Reap what you Sow"
"Eager"
To be inflamed by desire, to be yearning, to be earnest.
Men, have a desire burning inside you to complete and fulfill
your companion fully and unconditionally Spiritually, emotionally, and physically completing her always.
"Daring"
To have courage, to be bold, fearless. This important as this shows the characteristic of Christ in his relationship with the church. boldness to be the Head of the House, Fearless to protect and defend.
"Uplifting"
To lift up, to improve conditions both morally, socially, spiritually and emotionally. Men, it's so important you understand what your role is as the "HEAD OF THE HOUSE"
Ephesians 5:26-29
26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
"Patient"
Bearing trials without murmuring, not easily made angry, not hasty, The quality of enduring with calmness and perseverance.
Wow..What a way to cap off the characteristic of a man qualified to be the "HEAD OF THE HOUSE" Remember men it's not what you say that people will always remember but it's what you don't say. In a time of storm and chaos don't get caught up in the blame game value your relationship more than your ego. and say nothing. Remember "SILENCE IS GOLDEN"
"Forgiving"
To cease to bear resentment, to pardon. If you notice the word is Forgiving: this is unique to forgive is one time event. the act of forgiving is on going process that is demonstrated daily in not words only but actions.
Nothing is or should be more important to you than the relationship God has given you, Cherish, respect, adore and honor it. And above all remember "LOVE YOUR COMPANION AS CHRIST LOVED THE CHURCH" In the last year I have learned more about love, respect and honor than I have ever know before.
DON'T FORGET TO SAY
"HAPPY VALENTINES DAY"
IT'S NOT ABOUT HOW MUCH MONEY YOU SPEND, HOW MANY ROSES YOU GIVE IT'S ABOUT LOOKING HER DEEP IN HER EYES AND TELLING HER HOW MUCH YOU ADORE AND APPRECIATE HER AND THE VALUE SHE BRINGS TO YOUR LIFE.
By: Dr. Michael N. Smith Sr.
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY TO ALL THE LADIES, YOUR LOVED AND APPRECIATED.
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